Laura! I so feel you on accepting the chronic, letting go of the wishing. Hugs! I'm glad you found a way to cope at the very least and forgive yourself when you just can't. I've had to let go of having nice legs given my vein disease. The pain and discomfort isn't worth an even tan line and strappy sandals lol. So I'm leaning into the Sporty Spice fashions of our day and owning it. Compression knee socks and fun sneakers with flowy dresses, it's cool. :-) This is normal and forever now until my insurance decides my discomfort and pain is worth addressing.
Laura! I so feel you on accepting the chronic, letting go of the wishing. Hugs! I'm glad you found a way to cope at the very least and forgive yourself when you just can't. I've had to let go of having nice legs given my vein disease. The pain and discomfort isn't worth an even tan line and strappy sandals lol. So I'm leaning into the Sporty Spice fashions of our day and owning it. Compression knee socks and fun sneakers with flowy dresses, it's cool. :-) This is normal and forever now until my insurance decides my discomfort and pain is worth addressing.
My heart goes out to you! I know how long you've struggled with that. Glad you're embracing what is :)